Checking if your girlfriend is cheating, part 1
Posted by admin on 11 May 2009 | Tagged as: Checking for truth
There are several ways to uncover if your girlfriend is cheating on you; the most direct one is of course to ask whether there is something going on not. This is of course a lot easier than it sounds like as she most likely is to deny anything from anything happening. To really get to the base of truth you should talk in a way of understanding her. And I will cover this topic in another article. It is however worth mentioning that females aren’t natural sluts needing everyone they see. Often there are more emotional reasons behind their actions which is lacking in your relationship. However; the topic of this article isn’t understanding, but tools to uncover the truth. Many of the methods I will discuss here is illegal and should not be used unless the laws of your country accept them. It’s also a question whether you are living together, if you are married etc as there are privacy laws.
1) Hiring a black hat hacker
This is illegal in most countries and is punishable by fines and/or prison. There are however people on the internet that can hack your girlfriends email/msn/social websites. If you do this you should be aware that hacking is most likely illegal in your country; however it should be worth saying you should not pay any hacker in advance. Many pretend to be hackers but are in reality scammers only wanting your money, and have no interest in your problems. A serious hacker would provide you with proves that they got the password before you pay them. These proves are generally in terms of screenshots from their profiles or emails.
2) Key loggers
There are also a lot of key loggers on the market today; and you should be advised it is illegal in most countries to install key loggers on someone else’s computer. To this legally you should have it installed on your own private computer and not someone else’s computer. Some of the key loggers you get are USB based and put all the information to the USB drive. There are also much software based, and they often store the files in directories and you can check anything she has written/received on the instant chat messenger, or any mails written on the computer. Some also let you access the files from internet and you don’t have to do anything enter the local computer. You should be aware that most antivirus software can detect key loggers, so they should be installed manually on the computer and making exceptions for the key logger in the antivirus settings. There are software allowing for remote installation; but they are easily stopped by antivirus; or giving the user a warning prior installation.
We will continue discussing some methods in part 2 of this series.