boyfriend-catches-girlfriend-cheating1A cheating partner might awaken some of the worst feelings inside you. If your feelings are true and strong they might break your heart apart. Sometimes you might have a suspicion your girlfriend is cheating on you, but you are not completely sure. I will in this article look at some of the signs you should be aware of if there are suspicions or you have feeling that your girlfriend is cheating on you.

1)    Changes in behavioral
A change in her actions and behavioral pattern might indicate her thoughts and feelings are different, and maybe for someone else. Let’s look at a few examples: she is distant while doing things with you; previous she enjoyed watching movies with you, but recently she have started to distance herself; not getting what movies are about or simply being distanced while doing things she previously loved to do with you. Please keep in mind this is not a certain sign as other things might be on her mind as well.

2)    Money
Another sign that might be a bit more certain is changes of her money usage. At some point while being while being with her you start to learn her pattern in usage of money; if you notice changes as increased usage of money for gas or her having less money than usual without any explanation to what the money were used for you might need to check more closely what is happening.

3)    Appearance
Sudden changes in her appearance might also be a clue for you. It’s actually related to money; but she can still show what the money is used for. It is natural as people want to look and feel better when meeting new people. It could be subtle changes in clothing and hair; even perfume; however the most significant sign to look out for is underwear. Girls often want to use new and sexy underwear when they are with a new partner. So if she uses “boring” underwear while with you and sometimes more sexy underwear while going outside it might be a sign of your girlfriend cheating on you.

4)    New email/chatting accounts
Its common knowledge for people that it’s easy to check where you have made calls; to substitute for this they often uses email or msn/yahoo instant messenger.  So keep attention to her using new mail accounts; or changing password if you previously knew her password.
We have now looked at four actions that might indicate your girlfriend is cheating on you. These signs are of course not proves in themselves since there might be valid reasons for these changes; but you should pay more attention if they appear.
In part 2 of this series we will look a bit more on signs you should be awake for.

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