Expose Cheating Girlfriend

In this part we will continue were we dropped off last time on how to look for signs of a cheating girlfriend. Keep in mind that these are telling that might indicate she is having an affair; it’s in no way proofs of any sort; only signs that might give you a clue something is going on. Some of these changes might have natural explanations.

10) Detailed explanations
If your girlfriend suddenly starts giving detailed explanations to where she have been or what she have done it might indicate she have planned a story and want to take any suspicions away from her real actions.

11) Your friends common changes get abnormal behavioral
Another sign you should be aware of is your friends; some of them might know what’s going on, but are too afraid to tell you.  Instead of directly telling you they might be telling you indirectly by the guilt they feel covering up for your girlfriend. You will often be able to pick up if they feel uncomfortable spending time with you.

12) Smell
A lady might need to cover senses by either using more cologne, or even having a smell of a shampoo she never uses.  It might not always be she is covering up the act before coming home; and instead have frequent showering or “cleaning” immediately after returning to your home. Another change that might occur is daily washing of her cloth, so you should also keep an eye on the laundry. It might be she wants to clean away traces of any affair going on right away.

13) Trust your guts
Sometimes your guts will tell you if you learn about lies. For example she might have told you she was doing something, but you later learn she wasn’t where she told you. Or you notice a guilt hanging over your girlfriend. Sometimes things like this give you a gut feeling and you should try finding a logical explanation to why your gut feelings are so strong.
I have in this article series covered the thirteen most common signs for a cheating partner. If you come by any of these signs you shouldn’t definitely accuse your partner of cheating; but instead make more observations and logical resonations to why these changes have occurred. It might be valid reasons for any changes in people behavioral pattern; but it might also be the worst case scenario. She is unfaithful and cheating on you.

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In part 1 of this series we looked at signs indicating your girlfriend is cheating on you. The four signs we looked at was 1) Changes in her behavioral, 2) money, 3) appearance, and 4) New mail/messenger accounts. In this part we will continue where we stopped:

5) Deleting messages on her phone
If your girlfriend previously kept her messages on her phone but suddenly need a “privacy” and start deleting her messages immediately after sending or receiving them it might indicate she has communication with a guy and don’t want you to know about it

6) Changes in her schedule
Yes; we should admit it sooner than later; most ladies are well organized and have planned out their days. It is hard to keep such a big secret from their partner so they will need to make it fit between work, family and time with you. If she suddenly is not where she normally is at certain point of her day it might indicate she is spending time with someone else.

7) She talks a lot about someone else
This you might have noticed from a sister or maybe a female friend you had in your past. When they talk a lot about someone or admire someone it might indicate its more than just admiration or interesting situations that occurred; it might very well indicate she have strong feelings for this person she keep bringing up over and over again; so be very cautious if this suddenly occur.

8)    Physical contact changes
Another sign to be aware of is changes in their physicals life with you. If there is suddenly more passionate love between you, or opposite; less kisses and passionate love it might indicate she is either getting “bored” with you, or need to convince you nothing is going on and make more passionate love with you.

9)    Gifts  or “nicer”
Many feel a natural guilt over cheating on their partner. This I assume is a natural human behavioral, as it applies both for woman and men. If your girlfriend suddenly starts buying you gifts, or her natural behavioral towards you changes you should be aware she is covering something and feeling guilty. It might not be buying you a gift; but doing more favors for you, being more nice etc it might be the guilt of actions appearing.
We have now looked at a few more signs you should be aware of if you suspect your girlfriend is cheating on you. We will look at the third and final part (for now) in our next article.

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A cheating partner might awaken some of the worst feelings inside you. If your feelings are true and strong they might break your heart apart. Sometimes you might have a suspicion your girlfriend is cheating on you, but you are not completely sure. I will in this article look at some of the signs you should be aware of if there are suspicions or you have feeling that your girlfriend is cheating on you.

1)    Changes in behavioral
A change in her actions and behavioral pattern might indicate her thoughts and feelings are different, and maybe for someone else. Let’s look at a few examples: she is distant while doing things with you; previous she enjoyed watching movies with you, but recently she have started to distance herself; not getting what movies are about or simply being distanced while doing things she previously loved to do with you. Please keep in mind this is not a certain sign as other things might be on her mind as well.

2)    Money
Another sign that might be a bit more certain is changes of her money usage. At some point while being while being with her you start to learn her pattern in usage of money; if you notice changes as increased usage of money for gas or her having less money than usual without any explanation to what the money were used for you might need to check more closely what is happening.

3)    Appearance
Sudden changes in her appearance might also be a clue for you. It’s actually related to money; but she can still show what the money is used for. It is natural as people want to look and feel better when meeting new people. It could be subtle changes in clothing and hair; even perfume; however the most significant sign to look out for is underwear. Girls often want to use new and sexy underwear when they are with a new partner. So if she uses “boring” underwear while with you and sometimes more sexy underwear while going outside it might be a sign of your girlfriend cheating on you.

4)    New email/chatting accounts
Its common knowledge for people that it’s easy to check where you have made calls; to substitute for this they often uses email or msn/yahoo instant messenger.  So keep attention to her using new mail accounts; or changing password if you previously knew her password.
We have now looked at four actions that might indicate your girlfriend is cheating on you. These signs are of course not proves in themselves since there might be valid reasons for these changes; but you should pay more attention if they appear.
In part 2 of this series we will look a bit more on signs you should be awake for.

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